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When someone dies

What to do when someone dies, one step at a time

Losing someone close is hard, and the practical tasks can feel like too much. Call us at any hour and our experienced team will talk you through what happens next, whatever the circumstances.

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First steps

Three things to know straight away

  1. 1

    Call us, day or night

    Ring 0191 586 4322 at any time. We will listen, explain what needs to happen and answer your questions.

  2. 2

    We bring your loved one into our care

    Once a doctor has attended, or the hospital or care home is ready, we make the arrangements to bring your loved one into our care.

  3. 3

    Register the death and talk about the funeral

    You can come and see us about the funeral before the death is registered. We will guide you through each decision.

Every situation is different

What happens next depends on where and how someone died

Choose the situation closest to yours. If you are unsure, call us and we will help you work it out.

If the death was at home

Call their GP. The doctor will confirm the death and, in due course, issue the medical certificate showing the cause of death. Once the doctor has been, call us and we will bring your loved one into our care.

If you would like them to stay at home for a little while, tell us as soon as you can and we will guide you.

If the death was unexpected

If the doctor cannot give a cause of death, they will inform the Coroner, who will arrange for an examination. We work alongside the Coroner's office, providing our private ambulance service to bring people who die suddenly to the hospital mortuary, and we are often asked to do so by the police.

Most deaths are found to have natural causes, so an inquest is usually not needed. If a post mortem is required, we liaise with the Coroner and keep you informed. We can often set a provisional funeral date, and you can visit our Chapel of Rest once your loved one is back in our care.

If the death was in a hospital or care home

The hospital bereavement team will support you and tell you where your nearest register office is. Once you have called us, we contact the hospital or care home and make the arrangements for you.

Alongside them, we are here to offer emotional support and practical advice about what to do next.

If the death was abroad or elsewhere in the UK

If your loved one needs to be brought home to East Durham, call us straight away. We arrange our private ambulance service to bring them into our care at one of our Chapels of Rest, at Peterlee or Trimdon Grange, and organise the documents needed.

Where necessary, we liaise with the Foreign Office, the insurance company and the local Coroner's office for you.

When a child or baby dies

Nothing can ease the loss of a child, but you do not have to face it alone. We will help with the practical arrangements and the legal steps, and look after you and your child with the greatest respect.

The funeral is entirely yours to shape, and we will do all we can to give your child the goodbye you want.

Not sure where to start?

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Our phone lines are answered day and night, every day of the year.

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Registering a death

Registering the death

The person who registers the death is called the informant. This is usually a family member or the executor, and they sign the register in front of the registrar. The death should be registered within five days. If the Coroner is involved this may not be possible, and we will keep you updated.

Who can register a death

  • A close relative
  • A relative who was present during the last illness
  • The executor or other legal representative
  • The person arranging the funeral

Documents to bring if you have them

  • Their birth certificate
  • Their National Insurance number

The Medical Certificate of Cause of Death is sent straight to the registrar by the GP or the hospital bereavement office. If you cannot find the other documents, you can still register the death.

What the registrar will ask

  • Their full name at the time of death
  • Any other names they used, such as a birth or married name
  • Their date and place of birth (town and county if born in the UK, or the country if born abroad)
  • Their last address
  • Their occupation, or last occupation if retired
  • The full name of their husband, wife or civil partner, if they have died
  • Details of any state pension or other state benefit they received

How registration works

  1. The doctor sends an electronic copy of the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death to the registrar.
  2. The informant phones the registrar to arrange the registration.
  3. The registrar prepares a register entry for the informant to check and approve.
  4. The informant receives the death certificate and a green certificate. We need the green certificate before the burial or cremation can go ahead.

Official guidance: What to do when someone dies, on GOV.UK

In County Durham

Registering the death in County Durham

Durham County Council's Registration Service registers deaths that happen in County Durham, at its register office at The Story.

How it works

  • The medical examiner sends the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death to the register office electronically.
  • Once the paperwork is received, the Registration Service will contact the family to offer an appointment. This will be after the family have been contacted by the Medical Examiners Service.
  • You must attend the register office in person. Please do not go to the register office until you have been offered an appointment.
  • The death should be registered within 5 days of the register office receiving the medical certificate from the medical examiner, or from the coroner if the coroner was involved. If the death has been referred to a coroner, the coroner's officer will tell you what to do.

What to bring

Documents that confirm the details of the person who has died, for example their passport, driving licence, birth certificate, marriage or civil partnership certificate, council tax bill or NHS medical card. You will also need something to prove your own identity, such as a passport, driving licence or council tax bill.

Registering the death is free. Death certificates are available for a fee.

If the death happened outside County Durham

If the death happened at Darlington Memorial Hospital, or anywhere else in Darlington, it is registered with Darlington Borough Council. If the death happened elsewhere outside County Durham, the register office can take the details from you, but it has to pass them to the area where the death happened. This can delay the death certificate and possibly the funeral, so please ask us if you are unsure.

Durham County Council Registration Service: 03000 266 000 or theregisteroffice@durham.gov.uk. Source: Register a death, Durham County Council (opens in a new tab).

Tell Us Once

Tell Us Once is a government service that lets you report a death to most government organisations in one go.

  • You must register the death first. The registrar will give you a unique reference number for the service.
  • Use the reference number within 28 days, or it will expire.
  • It can tell organisations such as HM Revenue and Customs, the Department for Work and Pensions, the Passport Office, the DVLA and the local council.
  • You can only use the service once, and you choose which organisations it tells.

Useful to have to hand

Their National Insurance number, and if they had them, their passport number, driving licence number, vehicle registration numbers and Blue Badge number. You will also be asked about any benefits, pensions or council services they received.

Banks, utility companies, landlords, insurers and private pension providers are not covered by Tell Us Once, so you will need to contact them yourself.

Source: Tell Us Once, GOV.UK (opens in a new tab). We are always happy to talk you through these steps.

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After the funeral

Support that does not stop at the funeral

Grief does not end when the service is over. We have an in house Cruse bereavement counsellor with 25 years' experience, and our staff are trained in bereavement support.

We can also put you in touch with local organisations who understand what you are going through, or contact them on your behalf.

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Questions

Frequently asked questions

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What should I do first when someone dies?

Call us at any hour on 0191 586 4322. We will listen, explain what needs to happen and answer your questions. Once a doctor has attended, or the hospital or care home is ready, we make the arrangements to bring your loved one into our care.

What should I do if someone has died at home?

Call their GP. The doctor will confirm the death and, in due course, issue the medical certificate showing the cause of death. Once the doctor has been, call us and we will bring your loved one into our care. If you would like them to stay at home for a little while, tell us as soon as you can and we will guide you.

What happens if the death was unexpected?

If the doctor cannot give a cause of death, they will inform the Coroner, who will arrange for an examination. Most deaths are found to have natural causes, so an inquest is usually not needed. If a post mortem is required, we liaise with the Coroner and keep you informed. We can often set a provisional funeral date.

Can we talk about the funeral before the death is registered?

Yes. You can come and see us about the funeral before the death is registered, and we will guide you through each decision.

How soon does a death need to be registered?

The death should be registered within five days. If the Coroner is involved this may not be possible, and we will keep you updated.

What documents should I take to register a death?

Their birth certificate and National Insurance number, if you have them. The Medical Certificate of Cause of Death is sent straight to the registrar by the GP or the hospital bereavement office. If you cannot find the other documents, you can still register the death.

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